Monday, November 07, 2011

Why Spend So Much Money On the Wedding Party

Think big. That's the most important things over all. Why should spend so much money on a wedding party, while you will need more money after the wedding to continue your married life.

Sometime I can't understand people specially the celebrities that always spend millions of their money on a fairy tail wedding. In the other side a lots of people even don't have the food for eat, or a place to live. It isn't fair. The fairy tail or luxurious wedding never give you guaranty that your wedding will be last forever, right? The most important thing is how you run your life after the wedding. I've seen the people who spent millions of money on their wedding, but after a year, or few months sometimes, they got divorced. How silly to spending your money for nothing, just for a prestige maybe...

It's better to do something with thinking of the others which has nothing at all. Share is great and make everybody happy. It's not the money or anything you have in your life, but it's everything that you have done to make other peoples happy, then the happiness will knock on your door. That is the essential of this life.

Be wise and get married in the simple way without spending to much money maybe will save your love life after the wedding. Even you are the rich people, think of others who doesn't have money as much as you have. If you have budget to get married, try to cut in half, then give the half budget to the poor people. To help them get the better live, better food, better house, etc.

Are you with me on this? Lets be not egois and responsible with the people around us. Helping is everything, helping is powerfull. Try it

The Wedding Planners

Monday, October 31, 2011

Every woman dreams of her own wedding. May it be a small gathering in a picturesque orchard, a grand ball in a gigantic castle or a funky wedding along the coastline, she wants it planned and tailored to her wishes. Planning your wedding would take time, effort and energy but it's worth it. For brides out there, here are some things you can't forget to look into.

1. Payments

Of course, planning your wedding will need sufficient amount of cash. Establish who pays for what. This is usually worked out between the couple and their families.

2. Marriage License Requirements

There are different requirements for each state, so be sure to look into yours. Remember that you can't even start planning your wedding without a license so make it high priority.

3. Booking the ceremony and the reception.

Choose a place to hold your wedding. It'd be great if both parties talk about it. Also, planning your wedding means planning the reception well so that there won't be wrinkles in your wonderful day.

4. Reception

IdeasPlanning your wedding by yourself might become tiring, so set up a brainstorming session with your friends and relatives to work out the details. List the ideas in a piece of paper and deliberate on them carefully. Properly laid out plans are wonderful to work with.

5. Invitations

The invitation should be simple yet elegant. An overly decorated invitation just turns people off. Remember to include all the people involved in the wedding itself and address them properly. Be sure to indicate if you're inviting the children of the family too because most parents don't take them to weddings if their presence is not specifically requested.

6. Catering

Oohh... the success of every party more often than not relies on its food. Make sure that what you serve is of good quality and that they taste good. Go over the menu with the head chef and ask him for suggestions. Not only that this will give you great ideas, it will form a bond between you and the chef. Keep in mind that when planning your wedding, it pays to be in good terms with most of the staff.

7. Photos and Videos

Talk to the personnel and clarify what you want done. Sometimes, they just do things their own way and the couple ends up with really crappy results. Professionals are your best bet and they understand the need of planning your wedding to perfection.

8. Attendants

List all the people you want to have as your attendants and notify them as soon as possible. Just because you're marrying doesn't mean that the world will stop spinning and watch you in all your splendor. Take into consideration that people may have to rearrange their schedules to make it to your big day. Yes, planning your wedding take tremendous effort not only on you but on your attendants too.

9. Showers

No wedding is complete without showers. Since the bride is busy planning her wedding, this duty might fall into the hands of the mothers or the maid of honor.

10. Wedding speeches

In the midst of planning your wedding, take time to stop and list all you want to say on the day of your wedding. An impromptu speech is sincere, yes, but you might feel put out that you neglected to put emphasis on some people that really helped you a lot.

11. Maps

If your venue is in an area that is not so widely known, a map will be very useful. It will lessen the guests' aggravation on not finding the place and asking for directions.

12. Nitty Gritty Details

These are often overlooked in the chaos that is called "Planning your wedding". These are the little things that you might forget like having your gown cleaned and pressed ( if it's an heirloom), wobbling in your high heeled wedding shoes, delivery of gifts, your honeymoon itinerary, gifts and thank you cards. Try listing all of them and have someone look into them for you.

I hope you enjoyed these tips!

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